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back to basics 4: Ironing Meditation – turning everyday activities into practice

j0430860 I am not a woman who likes ironing.

Honestly, if they could genetically engineer cotton to be self-pressing I would consider it a personal gift to me.

However, this morning I woke faced with the unenviable realisation that, not only had I run out of clothes but the Ironing Basket was now spilling on to the floor. Yes, the Ironing Basket is a proper noun in my house. It holds sway over my well-being.

Now my reticence and whinging (the Aussie version of whining) is actually worse than it sounds because I only have to iron for myself. My kids live in tee-shirts, shorts and jeans and my husband irons his own clothes – he is much better at it than me. I will always remember the day he ironed one of my son’s school shirts and Jack declared “Wow, I didn’t know a shirt could look like that!”

Ironing Meditation

So, this morning, when I saw the extent of the overflow I decided to make ironing my mindfulness practice instead of a sitting meditation. I do confess to having a penchant for multi-tasking so here was the perfect opportunity. You may be wondering what on earth I am on about. Well…

Almost any day-to-day activity can be turned into an experience for centering the mind. The activities you have practiced :-) so far make use of the normal tendency of the mind to wander away from the task at hand. By becoming aware of our meandering mind we can turn a mundane experience in an exercise in self-discovery.

I first read about this practice of mindfulness with ordinary, everyday activities with Thich Nhat Hanh and have since seen it practiced by many Dharma teachers.

Simply; the practice goes something like this:

when ironing, just iron

when washing dishes, just wash dishes

when sweeping, just sweep

when resting, just rest

Yep…I ironed and…

I planned my next lesson

I planned dinner and what I need to get in the groceries

I reminisced about a meeting at work last week and planned a response to it

I regularly thought about how much I dislike ironing

I regularly thought about which items I could leave until next time

And each time I gently brought myself back to the present moment (once I noticed I had drifted off). Oh…planning, planning. Ahh…remembering, remembering.

Then I started to get in touch with the tension I hold in my body as I iron. Wow…choosing to relax. Whew…that’s better.  Shoulders dropping back down my back and breathing more evenly again.

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So…I finished the basket – yes, right to the last item. I have the glowing satisfaction of having integrated a mindfulness task with a chore. And I even have something to blog about.

These Four Foundations of Mindfulness can be used anytime, anywhere:

body

thoughts

feelings

breath

1 Response to "back to basics 4: Ironing Meditation – turning everyday activities into practice"

Fantastic advice. I dig what you’re laying down! – kelly.

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